Fascinating…though a little disturbing
http://xenex.org/poked/passaround.php interesting article. I was…particularly impressed by how candid it was.
A Happy Thanksgiving to all…
There’s a few personal notes at the end of this post, but first my annual digression on holidays…
Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving is among our most traditional holidays, having no real grounding in any specific religious holidays but being grounded in the European Tradition of a Harvest Feast which probably goes back well into the Neolithic.
Several groups of Spanish Explorers celebrated Thanksgiving feasts in spring in Texas, notably Coronado in 1541, and Juan de Onate in 1598, after nearly dying of thirst in the Chihuahuan desert. Martin Frobisher celebrated a Thanksgiving in Baffin Bay in 1578.
But the celebration moved into the realm of something fun that we might recognize with settlers in New France who established annual Thanksgiving Feasts at the end of the harvest season. Samuel de Champlain formed the “Order of Good Cheer,” the first order of chivalry under the sponsorship of Jean de Biencourt, Baron de Poutrincourt, not only to organize feasts and toasts but entertainment, including theatre.
It’s possible the settlers at Roanoake Island North Carolina also celebrated a Thanksgiving during the three years that they were abandoned in the late 1580s, but the main course may have been “each other,” since the colonists were likely starving and nobody knows what happened to them, though there’s some hope they were enslaved by the Indians and forced into a life of comparative plenty and shameless fornication.
In the British United States, Thanksgiving originated, like most important firsts such as Distilling, Tobbacco, and probably murder, from my home state of Virginia where Jamestown celebrated Thanksgiving from around 1607. The celebration was incorporated in the charter of Berkeley Hundred, around 1619.
The Separatist Pilgrims who settled at Plymouth in 1621 also celebrated a Thanksgiving Feast, celebrating their deliverance from safe urban prosperity in Leiden among the libertine Dutch to the wilderness of North America where they could endure hardship and privation in order to impose a strict religious rule. The somewhat more laid back Puritans who came to Boston a decade or so later may have continued the tradition.
In any case…Happy Thanksgiving!
Thanks to All…
It’s been a tough fall for the household with many challenges presented by health and the chances of finance….but we’ve done very well largely due to the character, determination, and goodwill of every one of us. I could not ask for a better household or finer people, and I’m thankful.
Several of my friends have also enjoyed good years. Some have found happiness in new relationships, others have endured depression or hardship and found stability and calm, or found new horizons. For that I’m especially thankful.
I’ve been largely absent here and on Fet for about the past two months…going on three…long enough to be remarked on. There’s nothing wrong. Following our successful late summer Workshop, I began working on a writing project to present what I’ve learned about the psychology of Power Exchange over the past ten years, loosely based on the framework of the booklet. The project rapidly expanded to about 150k words. It’s been “done” in terms of principal writing for weeks, but the revising is far harder than writing and beating the mass of words into a concise, orderly, draft is taking some time.
I have a hard deadline to have the Ms. published and available through print on demand and Amazon Kindle by February 1, but I hope to have it out by early January.
I don’t like talking publicly about writing projects till they’re mostly done, but this one is sliding towards completion. That said, I’m looking for people with an interest in the topic who might be willing to read the revised draft. Please feel free to contact me at the address in the sidebar if you’re interested. I’ll have some people for grammar and proofreading, so I’m looking for folks who care about the subject and can provide feedback about logical topic order, framing and presentation.
And if you’re a close friend and I haven’t leaned on you in private… please don’t feel neglected..I’m sure I will, but feel free to make me feel less guilty about imposing by dropping me a line!
It’s been a good year, and despite some hardships a lot of good things have happened and moved forward. Peace, prosperity and happiness to all of you!
Dammit….
Stuff supposed to go to the ARG Gaming Website keeps going to my personal feed. Thanks LiveWriter….
Encampment at Freedom Plaza. There was nothing on MacPherson Square today. I’m not sure if Occupy DC rolled into Stop the Machine and moved to Freedom Plaza or not. Freedom Plaza is a bit bleaker than MacPherson, but much better set up. The DC protest hasn’t really gained the groundswell of popular support that Chicago and NYC have, but it’s friendly and well organized. I dropped off some food and toiletries.
I stand with my brother Herman Cain…
I hadn’t really paid attention to Herman Cain’s 9-9-9 proposal, but I got to really understand it, and I have to say I’m impressed.
Cain definitely understands the core issue…getting the impoverished to bear their fair share of the tax burden. I think there are several strong points in favor of this plan:
a) Most of the people this plan would hit are not that close to the wire. Some still have conveniences like second hand computers, are able to buy school supplies for their children, or even rent movies.
b) The standard of living for the poor is cushy in the U.S. anyway. Our poor live in decaying tenements, and often have power and even furniture, rather than living in vast impenetrable suburban slums made up of shanty buildings built out of discarded trash. We need to get on board with more progressive countries like Brazil and South Africa, and stop hand wringing about the idea that the impoverished should have running water.
c) For the many people this would effect who are already living close to the wire, it’s not going to make any difference. When you can’t afford basic health care, or a meal that didn’t come from the McDonald’s dollar menu anyway, what possible difference is a quarter of your income going to make. It’s honestly better that I get the money. The poor are just going to use it to buy some cheap-ass shit at Dollar Tree, and if all of them go without I could actually buy something kind of nice at Crate and Barrel.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/fact-checker/post/herman-cains-misleading-pitch-for-the-999-plan/2011/10/12/gIQAHszPgL_blog.html?hpid=z2
Feeding the leeches with custom made blood sausage…more details at: http://gordonsdrysin.blogspot.com/2011/10/everything-you-ever-wanted-to-know.html
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Depression is humiliating.
It turns intelligent, kind people into zombies who can’t wash a dish or change their socks. It affects the ability to think clearly, to feel anything, to ascribe value to your children, your lifelong passions, your relative good fortune. It scoops out your normal healthy ability to cope with bad days and bad news, and replaces it with an unrecognizable sludge that finds no pleasure, no delight, no point in anything outside of bed. You alienate your friends because you can’t comport yourself socially, you risk your job because you can’t concentrate, you live in moderate squalor because you have no energy to stand up, let alone take out the garbage. You become pathetic and you know it. And you have no capacity to stop the downward plunge. You have no perspective, no emotional reserves, no faith that it will get better. So you feel guilty and ashamed of your inability to deal with life like a regular human, which exacerbates the depression and the isolation.
Depression is humiliating.
If you’ve never been depressed, thank your lucky stars and back off the folks who take a pill so they can make eye contact with the grocery store cashier. No one on earth would choose the nightmare of depression over an averagely turbulent normal life.
It’s not an incapacity to cope with day to day living in the modern world. It’s an incapacity to function. At all. If you and your loved ones have been spared, every blessing to you. If depression has taken root in you or your loved ones, every blessing to you, too.
Depression is humiliating.
No one chooses it. No one deserves it. It runs in families, it ruins families. You cannot imagine what it takes to feign normalcy, to show up to work, to make a dentist appointment, to pay bills, to walk your dog, to return library books on time, to keep enough toilet paper on hand, when you are exerting most of your capacity on trying not to kill yourself.
Depression is real.
Just because you’ve never had it doesn’t make it imaginary. Compassion is also real. And a depressed person may cling desperately to it until they are out of the woods and they may remember your compassion for the rest of their lives as a force greater than their depression. Have a heart. Judge not lest ye be judged.
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I realize that I’m preaching to the proverbial choir here.
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